Hussain Yee – Dont Be Sad #130

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The speakers recite meditation and pray for the day, emphasizing the importance of gratitude and being thankful for everything. They stress the need to prepare oneself and avoid wasting time on small things. The importance of acceptance of Islam and balancing weight is emphasized, as well as the importance of respecting animals and leaders. The conversation ends with a reminder to be consistent in finding peace with people and regular sleep.

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			Subhanallah, alhamdulillah, wa la ilaha illa Allah.
		
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			Inshallah to all the brothers and sisters, let
		
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			us begin our day with the morning invocation,
		
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			morning dua.
		
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			I will recite slowly so that everybody will
		
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			be able to follow.
		
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			And may Allah accept all our prayers.
		
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			Bismillahirrahmanirrahim.
		
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			Alhamdulillahi rabbil alameen.
		
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			Allahumma salli ala Muhammad wa ala ali Muhammad.
		
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			Kama sallayta ala Ibrahim wa ala ali Ibrahim.
		
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			Innaka hamidun majeed.
		
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			Allahumma bika asbahna wa bika amsayna.
		
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			Wa bika nahya wa bika namud.
		
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			Wa ilayka an-nushur.
		
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			Bismillahil ladhi la yadur ma'asmihi shay'un
		
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			fil ardi wa la fil samai.
		
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			Wa huwa al-sami'u al-alim.
		
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			Radi'tu billahi rabba.
		
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			Wa bil-Islami dina.
		
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			Wa bi-Muhammadin sallallahu alayhi wasallam nabiyya.
		
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			Allahumma inna nas'aluka ilman naafi'a warisqan
		
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			tayyiba wa amalan mutaqabbala.
		
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			Ya muqallib al-kulub, sabbit kulubana ala dinik
		
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			wa ala ta'atik.
		
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			Allahumma adqilna jannatak wa ajirna min al-nar.
		
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			Rabbana a'tina fil dunya hasana.
		
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			Wa fil akhirati hasana.
		
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			Wa kina azab al-nara.
		
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			Wa sallallahu ala Muhammad wa ala alihi wa
		
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			sahbihi ajma'in.
		
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			Wa alhamdulillahi rabbil alameen.
		
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			Ameen.
		
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			Ya rabbil alameen.
		
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			Allah rabbil alameen reminds all of us by
		
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			saying Uda'uni astajibu lakum.
		
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			Call upon me so that I will respond
		
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			to your needs, to your prayer.
		
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			Allah said again Wa izza sa'alaka ibadi
		
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			anni fa inni qarib.
		
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			Ujibu da'i wa tadda'i izza da
		
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			'an.
		
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			Fa liastajibu li wa yu'minu nabi.
		
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			Allah reminds the Prophet Muhammad sallallahu alaihi wa
		
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			sallam to remind all of us if anybody
		
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			asks you, O Muhammad, about me, Allah let
		
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			them know I am very, very close to
		
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			all of them.
		
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			Inni qarib.
		
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			I will respond to those who call upon
		
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			me.
		
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			Allah said Inni qarib.
		
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			Ujibu da'i wa tadda'i izza da
		
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			'ani.
		
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			Meaning if you humble yourself and keep on
		
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			asking Allah for what you think is important
		
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			for your life, I am going to give
		
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			it to you.
		
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			The problem, we are not humble enough.
		
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			Then Allah shows us the fastest way, the
		
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			best way for us to feel comfortable with
		
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			our dua that Allah will respond.
		
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			Sometimes we are making dua, we are not
		
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			sure.
		
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			Is Allah listening to us?
		
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			Is Allah going to respond to our dua?
		
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			We still have doubts.
		
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			We must not have these doubts anymore.
		
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			That is why Allah said Fal yastajibu li
		
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			wa yu'minu nabi.
		
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			Allah said when you make dua, first thing
		
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			you must try your best to do what
		
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			I want you to do first.
		
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			We must do our own homework.
		
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			We have to prepare ourselves.
		
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			You want something?
		
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			Then Allah said, do, you just do it.
		
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			That is how you move forward.
		
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			You cannot just, I want this, I want
		
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			this, I want this.
		
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			Do what you want and then ask Allah.
		
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			Prepare yourself.
		
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			After you have done your level best as
		
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			a human, then Allah said, wal yu'minu nabi.
		
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			You must have faith.
		
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			You should not have doubts in Allah.
		
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			Because if Allah said, I will respond, he
		
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			will respond.
		
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			It is a matter of how and when.
		
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			How and when.
		
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			We are very impatient.
		
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			That is why Allah said, innallaha ma'as
		
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			sabirin.
		
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			I am very close to those who have
		
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			patience.
		
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			It is not easy to be a good
		
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			person sometimes.
		
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			But in reality to be good is very
		
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			easy.
		
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			Just follow.
		
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			You don't have to waste your time, break
		
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			your head, trying to invent this and just
		
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			be a good follower.
		
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			But being human, we have been tested.
		
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			Every time I want to start our class
		
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			here, I always start with khutba tul haja.
		
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			In the future, I am going to make
		
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			sure that every one of us follow me
		
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			to recite this khutba together.
		
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			Why?
		
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			Because this khutba tul haja is a very
		
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			important reminder for every one of us.
		
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			That is why the Prophet named this khutba,
		
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			khutba tul haja.
		
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			Something that you need from Allah.
		
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			Something that is important for every one of
		
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			us.
		
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			The khutba tul haja, I just like to
		
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			repeat why because it is important.
		
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			We have been listening, we may understand sometimes,
		
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			but then we keep on forgetting.
		
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			That is maybe our fitrah, being human.
		
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			For Allah, He keeps on giving.
		
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			Even when we are ungrateful, unthankful, He keeps
		
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			on forgiving us.
		
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			He never punishes us immediately.
		
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			You are unthankful and punish you.
		
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			He still gives.
		
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			For human, we always get what we want,
		
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			and we keep on forgetting.
		
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			Allah has given us so many ne'mah, uncountable
		
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			blessings.
		
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			The eye that you can see every morning,
		
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			till the night when you want to go
		
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			to sleep.
		
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			The ear that you can hear the sound,
		
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			the wind, the rain, everything.
		
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			All these senses is a very unique gift
		
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			from Allah, but we keep on forgetting.
		
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			Our parents have given us so much, we
		
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			don't remember.
		
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			We keep on demanding, asking for more, expecting
		
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			for more.
		
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			Our parents have given us a lot, but
		
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			we keep on forgetting.
		
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			Allah keeps on reminding us, we keep on
		
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			forgetting.
		
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			Khutbah tul haja, always start by reminding ourselves,
		
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			the importance to be grateful and be thankful.
		
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			Why?
		
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			Because Allah said, If you are grateful and
		
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			thankful, I increase my blessing.
		
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			The blessing of Allah is not just dollars
		
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			and cents.
		
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			It can come in many forms.
		
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			You are healthy, it's a ne'mah.
		
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			What's the point you have all the money,
		
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			all the food in front of you, but
		
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			you can't eat it.
		
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			You just can't smell, you can't eat.
		
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			You can't eat this sugar.
		
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			You can't eat this because you got high
		
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			blood pressure, no salt, no sugar.
		
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			How do you feel the food when there's
		
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			no salt and no food?
		
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			Sugar.
		
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			It's tasteless.
		
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			So, if you are grateful and thankful, Allah
		
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			said, I increase my blessing.
		
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			I just came back from Uzbekistan.
		
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			I have a very fruitful meeting with a
		
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			lot of important people in the community.
		
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			I was sharing with them, and they are
		
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			so happy.
		
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			I said, one of the great ne'mah is
		
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			when we have good friend.
		
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			Having good company is a ne'mah.
		
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			A friend who keep on reminding us about
		
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			what is good and also alert us about
		
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			what is bad so that we are careful.
		
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			Good friend is a ne'mah.
		
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			How do you feel when you meet a
		
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			good friend?
		
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			Make you very happy.
		
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			You forget about your own problem now.
		
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			So, there is also a ne'mah.
		
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			So, the Khutbah tul Hajjah start with reminding
		
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			ourselves the importance to be grateful and be
		
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			thankful with whatever we have.
		
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			Everybody will have different kind of ne'mah.
		
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			Whatever you have, be contented first.
		
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			You want to have more, you can work
		
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			towards for more, Inshallah.
		
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			Then, Allah Rabbul Alamin said, If you are
		
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			not grateful, you always feel, I want more,
		
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			I want more.
		
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			The more thing you have, the more will
		
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			also accompany with more problem, more headache.
		
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			Yeah.
		
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			More, not only one, more will come.
		
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			More will come together.
		
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			Then, we start to have, I'm having this
		
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			problem, that problem.
		
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			It's no end.
		
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			And then, Allah Rabbul Alamin keep on reminding
		
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			us after, Nasta'inu is the ayat that
		
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			we always recite, Nasta'inu.
		
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			Anything spiritual, anything to do with our future,
		
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			we have no control.
		
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			Don't forget to ask Him first.
		
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			Ask Allah first.
		
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			We want to have righteous children, correct?
		
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			We do not just want to have children.
		
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			But in the early life, we don't remember
		
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			that we are asking for righteous children.
		
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			We only want children, children, baby, baby, baby.
		
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			So Allah give baby, baby, baby.
		
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			Keep us busy, busy, busy.
		
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			And keep us feeling sad and sad sometimes.
		
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			We give everything, we are so happy, but
		
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			they are not happy.
		
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			Example, this is very hurting, correct?
		
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			You spend so much gifts, almost every work,
		
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			day and night to give them the best.
		
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			After they are independent, they don't even feel
		
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			for you.
		
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			They don't have feeling to you.
		
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			And suddenly a stranger becomes so close to
		
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			them and ignore you.
		
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			How do you feel?
		
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			How do you feel, brothers and sisters, if
		
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			you have a good friend from childhood friend?
		
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			We go through all the good times, bad
		
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			times together.
		
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			We play together, we eat together.
		
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			For 30 years, Alhamdulillah, suddenly there is one
		
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			new friend who just joined us.
		
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			Now your good friend ignore you now.
		
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			Entertain that person.
		
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			Everything he, he, everything she, she.
		
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			Forget about, how do you feel?
		
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			Do you feel hurt?
		
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			30 years of friendship, you just throw it
		
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			aside and you only get to know three
		
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			months this friend, you ignore the friendship that
		
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			we have developed.
		
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			Okay.
		
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			But life have to move on.
		
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			Correct?
		
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			If that is how they value us, what
		
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			should we do?
		
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			Got headache?
		
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			Sad?
		
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			Oh, why complain?
		
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			No need.
		
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			Allah is telling us that the value that
		
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			we have towards that person is not a
		
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			right value.
		
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			Our feeling is not correct but we don't
		
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			know.
		
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			Now Allah is showing you your 30 years
		
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			of friendship you have no value to them
		
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			except a new friend.
		
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			So what do we learn?
		
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			We ask Allah.
		
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			Oh Allah, strengthen my Iman.
		
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			I have to move on.
		
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			Okay, no problem.
		
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			Who is closer to us than Allah?
		
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			Nobody.
		
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			Why you don't get close to Allah?
		
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			You have to counsel yourself.
		
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			Nothing is permanent except Allah.
		
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			No one can bring happiness real happiness to
		
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			us without Allah's blessing.
		
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			Because true happiness comes from Him.
		
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			That's why we say Allahumma anta salam Peace.
		
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			You are peace.
		
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			Wa minka salam and peace the real peace
		
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			only comes from you not from anywhere else.
		
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			Is that easy brothers to understand?
		
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			Sometimes it's not easy.
		
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			Because we are so dependent.
		
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			We depend on this, depend on that.
		
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			No problem.
		
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			But at the end back to Allah.
		
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			Always learn how to ask forgiveness.
		
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			We want Allah to forgive us easily we
		
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			must also forgive others.
		
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			Everybody have some weaknesses here and there.
		
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			We always learn from what is happening around
		
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			us.
		
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			The weaknesses of our friend act as a
		
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			reminder to the believer.
		
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			Something you don't like from him or her
		
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			you don't be like him or like her.
		
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			It's a reminder, reflection.
		
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			You don't like him to say this thing
		
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			so you don't say this to other people.
		
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			You don't like her to have this kind
		
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			of behavior so you don't behave like her.
		
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			That's how you move on.
		
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			You don't keep on blaming.
		
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			What happened in front of us brother and
		
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			sister is a reminder from Allah.
		
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			You don't like that because it's not good
		
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			so you don't be like that.
		
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			Be a better person.
		
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			That's how you move on.
		
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			It's not difficult.
		
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			If you have the right guidance back to
		
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			Allah.
		
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			Forgive.
		
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			Don't let that problem stay in you too
		
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			long because you have a better thing to
		
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			do in your life.
		
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			Correct?
		
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			There are so many things that we can
		
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			do.
		
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			Just do.
		
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			If that person is not thinking of you
		
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			why must you waste your time thinking of
		
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			that person?
		
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			What do you gain?
		
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			Give you one simple example.
		
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			We are so close.
		
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			Anytime we call each other Alhamdulillah Now you
		
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			keep on calling no response.
		
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			You send messages no response.
		
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			How do you feel?
		
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			Feel sad.
		
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			What happened?
		
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			But then we have the book today that
		
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			we are talking Don't Be Sad.
		
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			Now you feel sad.
		
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			Why?
		
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			What happened?
		
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			Life move on.
		
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			We try our best.
		
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			There's nothing wrong for us to try.
		
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			We keep on trying.
		
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			Send messages.
		
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			Maybe they are busy.
		
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			Maybe something went wrong with the line.
		
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			We thought we have sent but we didn't
		
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			reach the other party.
		
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			We don't know.
		
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			Maybe they lost their phone.
		
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			We don't know.
		
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			We just do what we can and pray
		
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			for the best.
		
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			That's how I advise myself.
		
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			I will try.
		
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			If there's no response I try again.
		
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			But normally I give myself a limit or
		
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			so.
		
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			The limit that I will try I use
		
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			the number 7 7 times.
		
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			Because Allah loves this number 7.
		
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			7 skies 7 earths 7 heavens 7 earths
		
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			In one week you have 7 days.
		
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			The 7 so and Allah is odd 1
		
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			He is 1 so He loves odd numbers.
		
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			You can try.
		
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			Try again.
		
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			Try again.
		
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			The last one what should you do?
		
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			After the 7th time what should you do?
		
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			No.
		
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			Give them a prayer.
		
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			Send a message maybe you are busy pray
		
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			for your safety wherever you are whatever you
		
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			do finish.
		
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			Move on.
		
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			You don't send a cursing message again.
		
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			No.
		
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			Send a prayer because we hope for the
		
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			best.
		
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			Maybe now they don't need you no problem.
		
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			So you just move forward be strong anyhow
		
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			when we are in pain when we are
		
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			sick when we are bedridden how many people
		
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			can stand beside us?
		
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			Some will come some will not be able
		
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			how long only Allah knows we are alone
		
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			life is that there will come a time
		
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			you will be alone by yourself and that's
		
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			why you go back to the history of
		
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			all prophets there will come a time they
		
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			have to go through the exercise of seclusion
		
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			Why?
		
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			To train themselves to be alone with Allah
		
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			that's why the connection with Allah is very
		
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			very important Allah never abandoned us He is
		
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			always there the only thing that we are
		
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			not connected Allah said by remembering Allah your
		
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			heart have peace happy Inshallah Astaghfirullah
		
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			and then we ask Allah O Allah help
		
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			me help me to overcome the negative feeling
		
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			or the bad thing that is in me
		
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			do we have a lot of negative feeling?
		
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			do we have?
		
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			yeah we do have we think bad about
		
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			others we think negatively about others all these
		
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			are negative negative energy don't entertain be focus
		
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			to something more positive pray for others then
		
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			you don't have headache do we love children?
		
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			of course do we love grandchildren?
		
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			more normally it's like that children too big
		
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			but grandchildren make us feel so good and
		
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			if we can hug them carry them play
		
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			with them crawl with them you don't crawl
		
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			with your children too big and then some
		
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			grandchildren come run come come come run yeah
		
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			you want to run with you Alhamdulillah but
		
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			one day something happen that they disconnect with
		
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			you how do you feel?
		
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			very hurt you miss them a lot sleepless
		
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			night that is common yeah we know because
		
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			when you are disconnected with people you love
		
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			so much it hurts a lot yeah Allah
		
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			Subhanahu wa ta'ala the creator He knows
		
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			everything that is going to happen He know
		
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			all our feeling and that's why He said
		
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			to us remember that your children your wealth
		
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			can be your enemy to the extent Allah
		
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			alert us they can be your enemy sometimes
		
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			they are good this Saturday inshallah maybe this
		
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			Saturday if I'm not wrong we have a
		
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			course perfecting my marriage PMM course yeah we
		
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			do this normally once in a year yeah
		
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			not like the PMS every month we conduct
		
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			the PMS because it's a daily kind of
		
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			communication with Allah PMM we done that and
		
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			now this year we are doing this coming
		
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			Saturday where we will highlight the important ingredients
		
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			how to have a happy family I believe
		
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			all of us do have happy time together
		
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			also the trial that we have to go
		
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			through and in this course I will highlight
		
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			what happened what caused the disconnection and what
		
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			is our role I was sharing with some
		
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			young people in Uzbekistan they are saying they
		
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			are rich people children getting married so they
		
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			are asking me about this I said I
		
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			will share with you some important point one
		
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			of the important point I said why Quran
		
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			said believing man married with believing woman and
		
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			vice versa why and the saying that there
		
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			will come a time some strange thing will
		
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			happen consider strain it shouldn't happen but it's
		
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			happening what is that a Muslim a righteous
		
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			Muslim man a believer the upbringing we read
		
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			Quran we are so pious Alhamdulillah but then
		
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			you will partner with a bad woman that
		
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			you are not aware people arrange for you
		
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			you look at her Alhamdulillah pretty yeah attract
		
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			you when she talk to you at that
		
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			time so soft spoken so of course being
		
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			a man you long to have this kind
		
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			of partner but this woman only Allah knows
		
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			her mind money money he's just thinking of
		
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			money he know that you have some money
		
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			but her mind is just that dunya now
		
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			you got married according to the teaching of
		
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			Islam is strain gribe a righteous man fall
		
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			into the hand of a bad lady vice
		
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			versa a righteous woman was match with a
		
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			bad man if you are B.A.T.
		
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			man at least you have some power but
		
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			this is a B.A.D a bad
		
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			man don't pray not grateful scream at you
		
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			they don't scream at you before after you
		
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			are married disrespect you humiliate you what kind
		
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			of you know life you are going to
		
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			have strain for this to happen but it's
		
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			happening but life move on now let us
		
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			go back to the subtitle don't be sad
		
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			learn to deal with your reality you just
		
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			have to be ready is that the topic
		
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			here yeah we know that in the reality
		
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			of life brother and sister if you inwardly
		
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			disparage something you can't have we have a
		
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			lot of dream but not everything that we
		
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			want we can have it yeah it values
		
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			will diminish for you important thing brothers and
		
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			sister you must be contented with not getting
		
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			something that you really wanted let it go
		
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			you have a dream you have a plan
		
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			you too plan towards that it will not
		
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			happen don't be upset why because there is
		
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			an ayah in the Quran so beautiful brother
		
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			and sister whatever problem you encounter Allah have
		
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			give us the guidance Allah said there are
		
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			times that you like this thing so much
		
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			so dear to you but Allah said it's
		
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			not good for you you don't know you
		
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			can't see your future Allah the all-knowing
		
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			the all-seeing there are
		
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			times that you don't like but thing that
		
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			you don't like is good for you Allah
		
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			end by saying I know what you know
		
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			not Masha Allah but a lot of people
		
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			as human we thought that we know of
		
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			course you have some knowledge who is the
		
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			one who give us the knowledge Allah Allah
		
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			said you were born without anything you are
		
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			born knowing nothing I am the one who
		
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			give you the knowledge the feeling the instinct
		
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			I give it to you don't forget me
		
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			but most of the time we forget when
		
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			you forget Allah what happen we keep on
		
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			doing thing that is not good people who
		
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			always remember Allah then they are very careful
		
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			with their action with their word very careful
		
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			that's why people who are not careful with
		
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			their word then you know even when they
		
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			are talking bad about somebody they are still
		
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			using Allah's name but Allah do not allow
		
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			you to use his name to talk bad
		
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			about people no it's your duty if somebody
		
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			is doing something wrong it's your duty to
		
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			remind them pray for them and do your
		
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			level best or you know what they do
		
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			is wrong so you must remember you know
		
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			it's wrong people is commenting people is talking
		
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			about so you don't do the same thing
		
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			now you are nobody one day you become
		
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			somebody so do you remember you must remember
		
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			what people was talking bad about the others
		
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			I'm somebody now I'm not going to behave
		
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			like that person is that easy because
		
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			we keep on forgetting Allah said I know
		
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			what you knows not you think this is
		
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			good you can try but if Allah do
		
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			not allow it to happen don't be upset
		
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			back to Allah He knows everything I accept
		
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			the Qadar of Allah learn how to accept
		
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			Allah's Qadar and if you are contented with
		
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			not getting something that you really wanted then
		
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			your heart will find peace Alhamdulillah that is
		
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			not my risky that's why some old folks
		
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			used to say bukan risky kita no problem
		
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			life move on in the Quran the ayah
		
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			Allah remind us in chapter 9 verse 59
		
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			Allah the meaning Allah will give us of
		
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			his bounty and also his messenger from we
		
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			implore Allah to enrich anything you ask Allah
		
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			I want the author is trying to share
		
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			with us read about read about a man
		
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			who fell out of a window the ring
		
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			he was wearing become stuck around a nail
		
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			that wasn't nailed down completely on the ledge
		
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			and consequently this finger his ring finger was
		
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			pulled from its root leaving him with four
		
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			fingers the amazing thing is not the incident
		
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			itself but the contentment shown by the man
		
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			long after the accident contentment that is illustrated
		
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			in the following words it's hardly ever crossed
		
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			my mind that I have four fingers on
		
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			one hand and I have lost a finger
		
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			it only come back when I remember the
		
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			accident otherwise my work is going well and
		
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			I am content with what happened Allah has
		
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			made his Qadar decree and he as he
		
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			please as he want to do that's why
		
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			there is a dua when something happen we
		
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			just say Qadr Allah wa ma sha'a
		
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			fa'al don't entertain why why why just
		
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			say Qadr Allah wa ma sha'a fa
		
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			'al Allah the all powerful decide what he
		
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			want to do you stop there and then
		
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			move on that is very important I know
		
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			a man who lost his left arm as
		
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			a result of a disease he has live
		
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			for many years since he got married and
		
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			has children he drive his car without difficulty
		
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			perform the various task of his work with
		
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			ease he is so at ease that if
		
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			as if Allah created him with only one
		
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			arm to begin with be content with what
		
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			Allah has motion out for you and you
		
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			will be the richest of people that's why
		
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			the Prophet said to his people his Ummah
		
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			richness is not because you have a lot
		
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			of wealth money property no you can have
		
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			no problem but the real richness is you
		
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			are contented whatever you have is that easy
		
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			brother and sister it's not difficult too but
		
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			you must not let the worldly thing corrupt
		
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			you anytime in life brother and sister if
		
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			you want to compare you have all the
		
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			right to compare nothing wrong Allah make everything
		
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			and put everything in portion that means he
		
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			make everything balanced anything that go up will
		
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			come down there are raining day there are
		
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			sunny day there are day and night there
		
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			are rich and poor look at the five
		
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			fingers that we have it's not the same
		
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			level and have different name that's how you
		
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			build to have one perfect hand with five
		
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			fingers what do you call in Malay this
		
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			one or in English the first one thumb
		
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			is that important this one oh anywhere you
		
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			know you travel thumb thumb thumb so important
		
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			Alhamdulillah the Malay use what ibu jari meaning
		
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			you don't say that this is a complete
		
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			community when there is no elders it represent
		
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			the elders a balanced community you must have
		
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			the old the oldest that's why today now
		
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			we have a lot of old folks home
		
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			they shouldn't have by right the old people
		
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			should stay with their children now the second
		
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			what do you call this finger the Malay
		
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			said jari telunjuk when we make shahada also
		
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			you use normally when people want to direct
		
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			tell you instruct you to do thing which
		
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			finger do he use this is called the
		
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			intelligent finger intelligent use that's why we should
		
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			very intelligent we acknowledge Allah one God with
		
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			this finger this finger will not go wrong
		
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			inshallah one in Malaysia one Malaysia we travel
		
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			abroad one family one umma one Allah never
		
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			go wrong so in the community you need
		
00:46:42 --> 00:46:47
			intelligent people too if everybody is stupid then
		
00:46:47 --> 00:46:52
			we may have problem you need some intelligent
		
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			scholars who will look into others telling teaching
		
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			in the family now the third finger come
		
00:47:02 --> 00:47:06
			in what is the third finger look at
		
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			your finger always the third finger the middle
		
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			one is a sign of what but remember
		
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			don't misuse that finger you do the wrong
		
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			thing at the wrong place you have problem
		
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			it's just like he's the tallest the highest
		
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			to show us that in the community you
		
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			need a leader no everybody cannot be a
		
00:47:39 --> 00:47:44
			leader at one time yeah he's always above
		
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			you that's why there was a sharing they
		
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			said when you were driving a car then
		
00:47:54 --> 00:47:58
			you see traffic like it's red what do
		
00:47:58 --> 00:48:06
			you do stop but suddenly the siren is
		
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			coming from behind you give way and he's
		
00:48:11 --> 00:48:14
			not going to stop you stop something is
		
00:48:14 --> 00:48:16
			green you can go but you still can't
		
00:48:16 --> 00:48:19
			go because some important person is passing by
		
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			correct yeah you look who is the oh
		
00:48:25 --> 00:48:30
			they got all the riders some important minister
		
00:48:30 --> 00:48:36
			is passing by they don't stop why because
		
00:48:36 --> 00:48:38
			they don't pay road tax you pay road
		
00:48:38 --> 00:48:44
			tax you follow yeah the traffic rule they
		
00:48:44 --> 00:48:47
			don't have to follow because they are higher
		
00:48:47 --> 00:48:50
			than you no problem we are not angry
		
00:48:50 --> 00:48:58
			oh some important person is passing by now
		
00:48:58 --> 00:49:01
			now it's your turn as a minister now
		
00:49:01 --> 00:49:06
			the king is passing by who stop who
		
00:49:06 --> 00:49:12
			will stop the king stop for you because
		
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			he is a king he is higher than
		
00:49:14 --> 00:49:22
			you suddenly the cow is crossing the road
		
00:49:23 --> 00:49:31
			what happened to the king just Buddha I
		
00:49:31 --> 00:49:33
			want to go or let the cow pass
		
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			through yeah you have to let the cow
		
00:49:40 --> 00:49:42
			pass through you don't can haunt the cow
		
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			the cow do not respond he may stop
		
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			there longer and look at you why you
		
00:49:48 --> 00:49:54
			make this sound you can understand the example
		
00:49:55 --> 00:49:57
			you don't think that you're so high that
		
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			you can do it you can be worse
		
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			than an animal then you have to honor
		
00:50:04 --> 00:50:08
			the animal you don't respect human you have
		
00:50:08 --> 00:50:15
			to respect the animal there is a reminder
		
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			don't think that you're so high above Allah
		
00:50:20 --> 00:50:25
			said to us in the Quran I created
		
00:50:25 --> 00:50:27
			you in the best form but I will
		
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			make you the lowest of the low you
		
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			can be just worse than an animal you
		
00:50:34 --> 00:50:39
			have to respect Mr. Cow nobody will send
		
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			a traffic someone to the cow it's just
		
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			a reminder you know so always remember anything
		
00:50:56 --> 00:50:59
			that happened in life only Allah knows you
		
00:50:59 --> 00:51:03
			have leader leader must be very alert most
		
00:51:03 --> 00:51:05
			of the leader feel because before they become
		
00:51:05 --> 00:51:09
			leader they promised everything they come down to
		
00:51:09 --> 00:51:12
			you they talk to you after that you
		
00:51:12 --> 00:51:18
			cannot even see them why not they have
		
00:51:18 --> 00:51:21
			a plan agenda how many time I visit
		
00:51:21 --> 00:51:24
			this village after I become somebody I make
		
00:51:24 --> 00:51:26
			sure the same number of time I'll come
		
00:51:26 --> 00:51:29
			back to this area talk to the people
		
00:51:30 --> 00:51:32
			get to know you don't have to do
		
00:51:32 --> 00:51:35
			everything you just come back to your area
		
00:51:35 --> 00:51:38
			talk to the people and show them that
		
00:51:38 --> 00:51:43
			I'm still here you know please I have
		
00:51:43 --> 00:51:46
			some officers I want to ask them also
		
00:51:47 --> 00:51:52
			check list I want to have my officer
		
00:51:52 --> 00:51:54
			I appoint over there I want to see
		
00:51:54 --> 00:51:56
			whether he's doing his job or not you
		
00:51:56 --> 00:51:58
			must have that kind of quality to be
		
00:51:58 --> 00:52:03
			a good leader we know after you become
		
00:52:03 --> 00:52:08
			somebody you have a lot of other stranger
		
00:52:08 --> 00:52:13
			getting closer to you not us we cannot
		
00:52:13 --> 00:52:16
			we have to go to appointment no time
		
00:52:16 --> 00:52:20
			no time no time but all the stranger
		
00:52:20 --> 00:52:23
			that you do not know will find a
		
00:52:23 --> 00:52:28
			way to get closer to you what do
		
00:52:28 --> 00:52:34
			they use they use worldly thing to control
		
00:52:34 --> 00:52:41
			you but you need a leader and the
		
00:52:41 --> 00:52:47
			fourth finger what is the fourth finger known
		
00:52:47 --> 00:52:55
			to us traditionally ring finger always people wearing
		
00:52:57 --> 00:53:03
			yes salam hardly people wearing here this one
		
00:53:04 --> 00:53:09
			sometime the malay used to use jari manis
		
00:53:10 --> 00:53:13
			it is not manis but sweet you look
		
00:53:13 --> 00:53:18
			at the finger you have some jewelry there
		
00:53:18 --> 00:53:23
			with some stone there again masha Allah to
		
00:53:23 --> 00:53:26
			show us in the community you need to
		
00:53:26 --> 00:53:32
			have rich people yes to balance out if
		
00:53:32 --> 00:53:34
			everybody is poor or so is not healthy
		
00:53:34 --> 00:53:37
			you should have rich and the rich help
		
00:53:37 --> 00:53:41
			the poor the intelligent educator the ignorant the
		
00:53:41 --> 00:53:44
			leader lead the community the eldest is there
		
00:53:44 --> 00:53:48
			to give advice the last finger what you
		
00:53:48 --> 00:53:54
			call this the malay used to use another
		
00:53:54 --> 00:54:01
			word what yes another word that you used
		
00:54:01 --> 00:54:13
			to use among all
		
00:54:13 --> 00:54:23
			the finger meaning it's not a complete
		
00:54:23 --> 00:54:30
			community if there's no children children is like
		
00:54:30 --> 00:54:35
			the flower in the garden it make life
		
00:54:35 --> 00:58:03
			more interesting oh it make
		
00:58:03 --> 00:58:13
			me very tired now how quickly we adapt
		
00:58:13 --> 00:58:18
			to our environment circumstances and it is amazing
		
00:58:18 --> 00:58:21
			how we adapt our thinking when the change
		
00:58:21 --> 00:58:26
			in lifestyle is imposed upon us 50 years
		
00:58:26 --> 00:58:29
			ago a house consisted of carpet made from
		
00:58:29 --> 00:58:32
			palm tree leaves a jug for water a
		
00:58:32 --> 00:58:34
			small amount of coal and a few other
		
00:58:34 --> 00:58:39
			poultry items people manage as they do now
		
00:58:39 --> 00:58:43
			and the lack of resources or comfort did
		
00:58:43 --> 00:58:46
			not make life any less important than it
		
00:58:46 --> 00:58:53
			is now lifestyle change before people live very
		
00:58:53 --> 00:58:58
			simple life is very simple very basic not
		
00:58:58 --> 00:59:05
			complicated today the life so comfortable everything current
		
00:59:05 --> 00:59:12
			everything electric everything battery you know not a
		
00:59:12 --> 00:59:18
			lot of movement anymore alhamdulillah comfort but if
		
00:59:18 --> 00:59:22
			this thing have some problem just like I
		
00:59:22 --> 00:59:25
			share with a lot of people you your
		
00:59:25 --> 00:59:28
			soul you sleep very well because you have
		
00:59:28 --> 00:59:32
			an aircon room if you don't like aircon
		
00:59:32 --> 00:59:36
			you just on the fan before you can
		
00:59:36 --> 00:59:40
			open your window and sleep you feel peace
		
00:59:41 --> 00:59:46
			today you just can't do that you will
		
00:59:46 --> 00:59:50
			have fear you know if you don't close
		
00:59:50 --> 00:59:53
			the window correct the only thing we close
		
00:59:53 --> 00:59:56
			the window today maybe because of fly because
		
00:59:56 --> 01:00:02
			of mosquito but you look back before 40
		
01:00:02 --> 01:00:05
			50 years people don't have to close the
		
01:00:05 --> 01:00:09
			window they have their fresh air coming in
		
01:00:09 --> 01:00:14
			ventilation now you can't we are imprisoning ourselves
		
01:00:15 --> 01:00:18
			lock lock lock lock everything on the lock
		
01:00:20 --> 01:00:23
			not enough lock alarm alarm alarm alarm on
		
01:00:24 --> 01:00:27
			for security can you we see the different
		
01:00:27 --> 01:00:30
			our lifestyle today but we have no joy
		
01:00:33 --> 01:00:38
			because of the dunia the corruption that happen
		
01:00:39 --> 01:00:43
			the value of life is not there anymore
		
01:00:43 --> 01:00:48
			the value of thing is given priority money
		
01:00:48 --> 01:00:52
			money work for it we also work very
		
01:00:52 --> 01:00:54
			hard you also have to work for it
		
01:00:54 --> 01:01:01
			no i want fast money dangerous you know
		
01:01:02 --> 01:01:04
			but remember at the end of the day
		
01:01:04 --> 01:01:08
			we believe the prophet did mention the day
		
01:01:08 --> 01:01:13
			will come that we live in peace so
		
01:01:13 --> 01:01:20
			peaceful even one animal speak to us the
		
01:01:20 --> 01:01:27
			blessing of Allah no more poverty nobody felt
		
01:01:27 --> 01:01:31
			that i don't have enough everything will be
		
01:01:31 --> 01:01:35
			blessed by Allah you don't go and look
		
01:01:35 --> 01:01:38
			for the poor you know what did the
		
01:01:38 --> 01:01:42
			prophet said the earth the earth will warming
		
01:01:42 --> 01:01:47
			up warming up gold can you imagine you
		
01:01:47 --> 01:01:52
			have so many gold gold bar all shut
		
01:01:52 --> 01:01:53
			and then you just don't know what to
		
01:01:53 --> 01:01:55
			do with the gold so you go to
		
01:01:55 --> 01:01:57
			your friend you want to give them gold
		
01:01:57 --> 01:02:01
			he say thank you my garden full of
		
01:02:01 --> 01:02:08
			gold he dig something gold come up the
		
01:02:08 --> 01:02:10
			time the prophet say that and it's going
		
01:02:10 --> 01:02:14
			to happen it's a matter of time but
		
01:02:14 --> 01:02:19
			before that happen situation will change there will
		
01:02:19 --> 01:02:22
			be a lot of peace and before the
		
01:02:22 --> 01:02:24
			peace there will be a lot of killing
		
01:02:29 --> 01:02:32
			now i think we seen a lot of
		
01:02:32 --> 01:02:37
			killing but the time will come we just
		
01:02:37 --> 01:02:40
			have to play our role be ready don't
		
01:02:40 --> 01:02:46
			let anything corrupt you destroy yourself do your
		
01:02:46 --> 01:02:50
			level best allah say ya yuha lazina amanu
		
01:02:50 --> 01:02:55
			ku anfusakum wa ahlikum now all you who
		
01:02:55 --> 01:02:59
			believe save yourself and your family the first
		
01:02:59 --> 01:03:01
			thing you have to be focus brother and
		
01:03:01 --> 01:03:08
			sister you me is me first then after
		
01:03:08 --> 01:03:11
			you have done your level best to do
		
01:03:11 --> 01:03:13
			what allah want you to do you do
		
01:03:13 --> 01:03:17
			your level best and don't be sad unnecessary
		
01:03:19 --> 01:03:22
			of course you feel sad sometimes no problem
		
01:03:22 --> 01:03:25
			it's common being human because you don't get
		
01:03:25 --> 01:03:28
			what you want you give the best but
		
01:03:28 --> 01:03:34
			you receive the worst but act positively this
		
01:03:34 --> 01:03:38
			is a reminder for you to be stronger
		
01:03:39 --> 01:03:43
			so that you can move forward and always
		
01:03:43 --> 01:03:48
			find peace with allah you will never feel
		
01:03:48 --> 01:03:54
			if you find peace with people then that
		
01:03:54 --> 01:03:58
			people will feel you i know we all
		
01:03:58 --> 01:04:01
			are very attached to so many things material
		
01:04:01 --> 01:04:10
			money gold children friends yeah sometimes we also
		
01:04:10 --> 01:04:13
			learn how the problem is suddenly there's no
		
01:04:13 --> 01:04:18
			electric supply how do we feel now we
		
01:04:18 --> 01:04:24
			live in fear oh blackout now we cannot
		
01:04:24 --> 01:04:32
			sleep yeah because there a good sign when
		
01:04:32 --> 01:04:36
			you blackout it's easy no sound no music
		
01:04:36 --> 01:04:40
			everything yeah have to sleep well but the
		
01:04:40 --> 01:04:45
			fear is there yeah because the security is
		
01:04:45 --> 01:04:48
			not there anymore but we have to try
		
01:04:48 --> 01:04:53
			our best to make sure that we have
		
01:04:53 --> 01:04:59
			some peace yeah life is going to change
		
01:04:59 --> 01:05:04
			we face only darkness we don't face all
		
01:05:04 --> 01:05:10
			the war all the shooting yet in the
		
01:05:10 --> 01:05:12
			early 70s when I was still a student
		
01:05:12 --> 01:05:17
			in Syria Syria is at war with the
		
01:05:17 --> 01:05:21
			Israel from that time and they always have
		
01:05:22 --> 01:05:28
			bombing somewhere in Golan Heights every time you
		
01:05:28 --> 01:05:33
			hear the bullets sound yeah shooting sound for
		
01:05:33 --> 01:05:35
			the people who are so used to it
		
01:05:35 --> 01:05:39
			it's normal life move on we are not
		
01:05:39 --> 01:05:42
			used to it when you hear bullet you
		
01:05:42 --> 01:05:45
			want to hide somewhere why are you running
		
01:05:45 --> 01:05:48
			away where are you hiding because we are
		
01:05:48 --> 01:05:53
			not used to it like Afghanistan when they
		
01:05:53 --> 01:05:57
			were fighting with the Russians you know bullet
		
01:05:57 --> 01:06:01
			sound bombing is common the minute they don't
		
01:06:01 --> 01:06:07
			hear any sound they feel weird because this
		
01:06:07 --> 01:06:10
			sound is common when there's no what is
		
01:06:10 --> 01:06:18
			happening so just the opposite yeah but alhamdulillah
		
01:06:19 --> 01:06:21
			maybe Allah just want me to be exposed
		
01:06:21 --> 01:06:24
			to this kind of environment so that I
		
01:06:24 --> 01:06:28
			can understand and don't just read and learn
		
01:06:28 --> 01:06:34
			but I experience real environment yeah we are
		
01:06:34 --> 01:06:36
			still at ease alhamdulillah we live in peace
		
01:06:37 --> 01:06:40
			we hope the peace will stay on as
		
01:06:40 --> 01:06:44
			long as we stay connected to Allah yeah
		
01:06:44 --> 01:06:52
			so stay connected be consistent in remembering Allah
		
01:06:52 --> 01:06:56
			be consistent in attending all the good class
		
01:06:56 --> 01:07:01
			activities so that the blessing of Allah continue
		
01:07:01 --> 01:07:07
			yeah Allah love those who are consistent yeah
		
01:07:07 --> 01:07:13
			istiqamah known as istiqamah an Arab poet said
		
01:07:13 --> 01:07:17
			the soul desire more if you encourage it
		
01:07:17 --> 01:07:21
			but it doesn't return to contentment when it
		
01:07:21 --> 01:07:27
			is disciplined yeah normally the desire in us
		
01:07:27 --> 01:07:29
			we want more and more and more correct
		
01:07:30 --> 01:07:37
			there's normal yeah but when you are contented
		
01:07:38 --> 01:07:47
			you find a lot of peace alhamdulillah no
		
01:07:47 --> 01:07:52
			big deal yeah you can dream for the
		
01:07:52 --> 01:07:56
			best nothing wrong you can hope for the
		
01:07:56 --> 01:07:59
			best nothing wrong you just do what you
		
01:07:59 --> 01:08:04
			can whatever happened always be grateful and be
		
01:08:04 --> 01:08:09
			thankful that's how life move on you are
		
01:08:09 --> 01:08:14
			healthy today shukr that's why alhamdulillah after food
		
01:08:14 --> 01:08:21
			alhamdulillah after drink alhamdulillah that's all be grateful
		
01:08:21 --> 01:08:27
			be thankful but when you say alhamdulillah remember
		
01:08:27 --> 01:08:36
			what you said to Allah alhamdulillah all this
		
01:08:36 --> 01:08:38
			daily prayer that the prophet remind us is
		
01:08:38 --> 01:08:44
			so important for us to reflect all all
		
01:08:44 --> 01:08:46
			places due to you oh Allah for what
		
01:08:49 --> 01:08:54
			for the life that you extended in me
		
01:08:55 --> 01:09:00
			somebody have gone I'm still alive another day
		
01:09:05 --> 01:09:09
			then what we say oh Allah help me
		
01:09:10 --> 01:09:14
			help me to be organized to prepare myself
		
01:09:14 --> 01:09:23
			for my departure can you imagine that and
		
01:09:23 --> 01:09:27
			then the prophet immediately after that remind us
		
01:09:27 --> 01:09:34
			don't forget to make another du'a in
		
01:09:38 --> 01:09:41
			the morning we just started just now oh
		
01:09:41 --> 01:09:45
			Allah bless my morning I do not just
		
01:09:45 --> 01:09:47
			want the morning like normal morning I want
		
01:09:47 --> 01:09:51
			this morning to be blessed so that whatever
		
01:09:51 --> 01:09:55
			I do will be pleasing you oh Allah
		
01:09:55 --> 01:09:58
			I don't want to misuse my time in
		
01:09:58 --> 01:10:01
			this morning to do things that displease you
		
01:10:01 --> 01:10:09
			oh Allah time is amanah time is well
		
01:10:12 --> 01:10:22
			time is opportunity alha bismillah bismillah Allah asbahna
		
01:10:23 --> 01:10:27
			and we keep on hoping until evening bless
		
01:10:27 --> 01:10:32
			our morning till the evening to come you
		
01:10:32 --> 01:10:34
			want if we are happy we are safe
		
01:10:34 --> 01:10:36
			we are healthy we want also to be
		
01:10:36 --> 01:10:41
			safe and healthy until the evening oh Allah
		
01:10:41 --> 01:10:44
			bless my life I don't want to just
		
01:10:44 --> 01:10:47
			live like other people I want to live
		
01:10:48 --> 01:10:52
			meaningful so that what I live in this
		
01:10:52 --> 01:10:55
			world I do something to please you before
		
01:10:55 --> 01:10:58
			something happens to me if I have the
		
01:10:58 --> 01:11:01
			opportunity to do anything good I want to
		
01:11:01 --> 01:11:22
			do oh Allah I don't
		
01:11:22 --> 01:11:27
			want to
		
01:11:29 --> 01:11:35
			do
		
01:11:36 --> 01:11:44
			anything good
		
01:11:44 --> 01:11:54
			I
		
01:11:54 --> 01:12:26
			don't want to anything
		
01:12:26 --> 01:12:28
			I don't do good I don't want to
		
01:12:28 --> 01:12:38
			do I don't want
		
01:12:38 --> 01:12:47
			to do anything good I don't want good
		
01:12:49 --> 01:12:58
			I don't good
		
01:12:58 --> 01:13:19
			I don't
		
01:13:19 --> 01:13:26
			want anything good I
		
01:13:28 --> 01:13:39
			don't want to do anything good I
		
01:13:49 --> 01:13:58
			don't want anything good I don't anything good
		
01:14:00 --> 01:14:12
			I want anything good
		
01:14:25 --> 01:14:34
			I don't good don't want good I want
		
01:14:34 --> 01:14:42
			anything good good don't want
		
01:14:42 --> 01:14:56
			anything good I
		
01:14:56 --> 01:15:09
			don't want
		
01:15:10 --> 01:15:22
			anything good I don't want
		
01:15:29 --> 01:15:41
			anything good I don't want anything good
		
01:15:41 --> 01:16:01
			I don't
		
01:16:06 --> 01:16:29
			want anything good don't want anything
		
01:16:29 --> 01:16:37
			good I good I don't want anything I
		
01:16:37 --> 01:16:44
			don't want anything I don't want anything I
		
01:16:53 --> 01:17:16
			don't anything good I don't want
		
01:17:16 --> 01:17:24
			anything good I don't want anything good I
		
01:17:24 --> 01:17:24
			don't want anything good I don't want anything
		
01:17:24 --> 01:17:41
			good I don't want
		
01:17:41 --> 01:17:46
			anything good I don't want anything good I
		
01:17:52 --> 01:18:02
			don't good I don't want anything
		
01:18:02 --> 01:18:24
			don't want anything good I don't want I
		
01:18:32 --> 01:18:48
			don't want
		
01:18:48 --> 01:19:02
			anything don't want anything don't I don't
		
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			want good don't want I don't I
		
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